Episcopal Church of Saints Andrew & Matthew (SsAM)

Seeking to know and love God in every person, here, now.

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Reflections by Mary Lou Edgar

Reflections written by Mary Lou Edgar for the Episcopal Church of Saints Andrew and Matthew, downtown Wilmington, Delaware.

The Road Not Taken

A reflection by Mary Lou Edgar for July 2, 2023. My favorite poet is Robert Frost. I learned about him in high school when I was able to hear him read some of his poems. I was mesmerized. I know many of his poems may seem simplistic. They still rhyme – what’s up with that? […]

Resilience

A reflection by Mary Lou Edgar for June 11, 2023. Recently I read the best-selling book, Demon Copperhead, written by a Pulitzer Prize winning author, Barbara Kingsolver. Many warned me that this book was disturbing and that I would not enjoy it. However, that was not true. There were many themes in the book but […]

We Never Know

A reflection by Mary Lou Edgar for May 21, 2023. Mother’s Day is a day when I am incredibly grateful but also aware of all the mothers who have suffered extreme losses. The day after Mother’s Day, I woke up to realize that a dear friend, the former President of Neumann University, a person for […]

Reflection on Winter – A Time to Slow Down

A reflection for February 5, 2023 by Mary Lou Edgar. It is hard to believe that we are in the middle of winter. We have had many nice days and although there have been – and will be – some very cold days, it is a time to enjoy some of the changes that the […]

Reflection — And So This Is Christmas

A Christmas reflection by Mary Lou Edgar, December 23, 2022. Each year, as Christmas approaches, I find it to be more problematic. When we were children, it was a time of mystery, of wanting something, of high adrenaline. Our parents were often victims of shortened tempers and having too much to do. We counted the […]

Reflection: Walking The Road: My Prayer Journey

by Mary Lou Edgar, August 12, 2022 I have always felt that these words, from a song by Joe Wise, were about me —“Lord, teach us to pray. It’s been a long and cold December kind of day. With our hearts and minds all busy in our private little wars, we stand and watch each […]

Reflection: What Does Freedom Mean?

by Mary Lou Edgar. Freedom. We hear it all the time, and especially now as we approach Independence Day and celebrate our freedom from the British in 1776. As a child of the ’60s, there was much music that made freedom a household word (Everyone Has Got to be Free, Born Free). At the heart […]

Reflection – The Trinity – Learning and Understanding

by Mary Lou Edgar. Recently Dan and I watched the movie, The Shack. We had both read the book and been moved by it; however, the movie made it more real. The Shack is the story of a man whose child was murdered. It appears in the story that this man has a dream where […]

Reflection – We All Deserve A Chance

by Mary Lou Edgar. Many of you know that I worked in adoption and foster care for my entire career. May is Foster Care Month and I thought I would share how my work relates to my spiritual life. I knew I wanted to adopt children when I was very young. I thought about it […]

Reflection – Easter Resolutions and Real Change

Reflection for the Third Sunday of Easter, May 1, 2022 by Mary Lou Edgar. “Just after daybreak Jesus stood on the beach, but the disciples did not know that it was Jesus.” –John 21:4 Can I Change? Easter is such an emotional time. Lent has ended, we celebrate the Resurrection of Jesus, and I get […]

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Upcoming Events

SsAM’s 30th Anniversary Jazz Vespers, Sunday, October 11, 6pm Click here to learn more about sacred jazz at … [Read More...]

Worship God with us in downtown Wilmington, Delaware

On Sundays, we usually have worship services at 8:00 and 10:30 a.m. at our location in downtown Wilmington, Delaware. The second service … [Read More...]

Chris White Art Gallery and Shipley Artist Lofts.

Coffee Hour at Chris White Gallery on Sunday, October 18 at Noon.  Reception featuring baked goods, refreshments, conversation, and … [Read More...]

Reverend Dr. Stephany D. Graham Walker

The Reverend Dr. Stephany Graham Walker is the new Associate Minister for Formation and Justice and Diocesan Missioner for Racial Justice … [Read More...]

Spiritual Gifts

In the lectionary for the Sunday closest to October 12th, there is a passage from Apostle Paul’s first letter to the Corinthians (12:4-11) … [Read More...]

Welcome to the Season of Creation!

The Season of Creation originated in the Anglican Church of South Africa in 2008 and is designed for us to explore our faith from a Creation … [Read More...]

Sunday Morning Nursery Care

After a hiatus of many years,  SsAM has restarted nursery care every Sunday, 10:00am to 12:30pm. Nursery care resumes on Sunday … [Read More...]

Children’s Chapel

Children’s Chapel continues every Sunday at 10:30am. Children’s Chapel for ages 6-13 years old 10:30am each Sunday morning in the Demby … [Read More...]

Stewardship Campaign for 2027

Stewardship Letter for 2027 Dear Friends, It is time for our annual stewardship campaign which we have traditionally aligned with the … [Read More...]

Code Purple – Providing Overnight Shelter in Wilmington, Delaware

A place to say on cold nights.  Once again our church will host individuals who need a warm, safe place to sleep when a Code Purple is … [Read More...]

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Worship Services

We will be delighted if you worship with us in-person or via video this Sunday. Click here to learn more!

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Visit Us

719 N. Shipley Street
Wilmington, DE 19801
with free parking weekends and evenings next to the church at 713 N. Shipley Street. Click here to learn more about parking and directions.
Office Hours
Monday – Thursday, 9:00 to 4:30
Friday, 9:00 to 1:00

Contact Us

PHONE: 302 656-6628

EMAIL: Click here to use our email form.

FACEBOOK: Click here to see our Facebook page.

YOUTUBE: Click here to see our YouTube Channel. You can also earch for “Saints Andrews and Matthew”.

OUR MISSION

To be an inclusive Christian community which worships God, follows Christ in all aspects of our lives, and serves the Greater Wilmington area through actions and ministries which promote peace, justice, reconciliation and empowerment for all people.

Our Vision

The Episcopal Church of Sts. Andrew and Matthew seeks to be a dynamic, spiritual center that is active in the pursuit of peace and justice in the community and a place where all God’s people are honored.

Are You New to SsAM?

If you are new to SsAM, please click here to see the Welcome page on this website. The Episcopal Church of Saints Andrew and Matthew is a diverse congregation active in the affairs of downtown Wilmington, Delaware, seeking God’s will on earth as it is in heaven.

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  • Episcopal Church USA
  • Episcopal Church in Delaware
  • Camp Arrowhead, Delaware

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