Episcopal Church of Saints Andrew & Matthew (SsAM)

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Bubbling, Bubbling, Toiling, & Troubling

The hallmark of any bubble is its fragility which usually leads to its immediate demise, although some last slightly longer. Watching a child’s joy in chasing a big bubble across the yard and reaching it just as it POPS yields gaggles of giggles all around.

A reflection by Christina Brennan Lee for September 13, 2026.

Recently as I squeezed the bottle of dishwashing liquid into water in a sticky bowl, some little bubbles floated up and, as expected, popped quickly as they rose. After washing the dishes and putting them in the drainer, I turned to use the hand towel I have hanging on the refrigerator door handle. When I looked up I noticed this little bubble sitting on a pot holder that I keep on a magnetic shelf on the side of the fridge. I found myself watching it, expecting it to disappear at any moment. I was amazed as it simply sat lightly on the cover of the pot holder. I began to wonder if I could get my phone from the den and get back in time to get a picture of it? It was silly I thought, why do I want a picture, and anyway I was certain I couldn’t possibly make it. And yet as I continued to watch and wonder, I finally thought: nothing ventured … and unbelievably I returned in time. At least a full 5 minutes had elapsed since my first view. After taking a picture, while wondering why I was doing so, I turned for a nanosecond to put my phone on the counter and when I looked again the bubble was gone ~ it had “mist-appeared” as my now adult granddaughter would have said with grand arm gestures, just a short while of about 15 years ago. Interestingly, perhaps even strangely, I started to ponder the life journey of a tiny bubble and suddenly the thought moved to one of a tiny embryo that grows into a noisy newborn, a toddler, a child, one of those teenager-things, and beyond….

Through our toils, our troubles [received and given], through our lows and highs, some days we bubble and some days we pop during the length of time we’ve been given to live. Obviously, some of us have life-bubbles that last longer than others and we all have different ways to cope and celebrate in our days. For those of us with a reasonably solid faith tradition, we have been given formal rituals to guide us through the most difficult times as well as the happiest. Some of us have developed additional ways to make our way in dark moments and thanksgivings for those beaming rays of joy. We who are pray-ers, use our own words as well as the more formal ways of memorized prayers. Prayer and Liturgy are how many of us gather the spiritual sustenance to take us through the ups and downs in the everyday and the extraordinary happenings of this life. Some turn to the Bible for comfort, advice, and a sense of God’s Presence through various Hebrew Testament books such as the Psalms, some of the prophets, and some turn to Paul’s Letters, the Gospels, and the Acts of the Apostles for soul, heart, and mind nourishment. We want to remind ourselves of the constant Presence of Jesus, the direction of the Apostles after his death, and looking for ways to fill ourselves with the Holy Spirit, our Source of Wisdom, Comfort, and soul energy.

This bubble encounter seems to have been, strange as it seems, a spiritual moment for me as it took me down paths to refresh my conscious awareness of the natural and human life that surrounds me beyond my occasional self-imposed barriers. The world of our Trinity ~ Creator, Redeemer, Sanctifier ~ has always held deep meaning for me and this little bubble opened a new fascination for my continuing exploration into what is Spiritual and under that canopy, what is Spirituality? I will continue to seek more. What and when are spiritual bubbles that rise up for you? Let’s talk….

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Christina Brennan Lee, Episcopal Church of Saints Andrew and Matthew (SsAM), Wilmington, DelawareABOUT THE AUTHOR: Every week, Christina Brennan Lee writes the Prayers of the People we use in our worship services on Sundays. She also leads weekday prayer services and serves on the SsAM Vestry. Click here to see her People’s Prayers website.

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NEWS

Upcoming Events

SsAM’s 30th Anniversary Jazz Vespers, Sunday, October 11, 6pm Click here to learn more about sacred jazz at … [Read More...]

Worship God with us in downtown Wilmington, Delaware

On Sundays, we usually have worship services at 8:00 and 10:30 a.m. at our location in downtown Wilmington, Delaware. The second service … [Read More...]

Chris White Art Gallery and Shipley Artist Lofts.

Coffee Hour at Chris White Gallery on Sunday, October 18 at Noon.  Reception featuring baked goods, refreshments, conversation, and … [Read More...]

Reverend Dr. Stephany D. Graham Walker

The Reverend Dr. Stephany Graham Walker is the new Associate Minister for Formation and Justice and Diocesan Missioner for Racial Justice … [Read More...]

Spiritual Gifts

In the lectionary for the Sunday closest to October 12th, there is a passage from Apostle Paul’s first letter to the Corinthians (12:4-11) … [Read More...]

Welcome to the Season of Creation!

The Season of Creation originated in the Anglican Church of South Africa in 2008 and is designed for us to explore our faith from a Creation … [Read More...]

Sunday Morning Nursery Care

After a hiatus of many years,  SsAM has restarted nursery care every Sunday, 10:00am to 12:30pm. Nursery care resumes on Sunday … [Read More...]

Children’s Chapel

Children’s Chapel continues every Sunday at 10:30am. Children’s Chapel for ages 6-13 years old 10:30am each Sunday morning in the Demby … [Read More...]

Stewardship Campaign for 2027

Stewardship Letter for 2027 Dear Friends, It is time for our annual stewardship campaign which we have traditionally aligned with the … [Read More...]

Code Purple – Providing Overnight Shelter in Wilmington, Delaware

A place to say on cold nights.  Once again our church will host individuals who need a warm, safe place to sleep when a Code Purple is … [Read More...]

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719 N. Shipley Street
Wilmington, DE 19801
with free parking weekends and evenings next to the church at 713 N. Shipley Street. Click here to learn more about parking and directions.
Office Hours
Monday – Thursday, 9:00 to 4:30
Friday, 9:00 to 1:00

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PHONE: 302 656-6628

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OUR MISSION

To be an inclusive Christian community which worships God, follows Christ in all aspects of our lives, and serves the Greater Wilmington area through actions and ministries which promote peace, justice, reconciliation and empowerment for all people.

Our Vision

The Episcopal Church of Sts. Andrew and Matthew seeks to be a dynamic, spiritual center that is active in the pursuit of peace and justice in the community and a place where all God’s people are honored.

Are You New to SsAM?

If you are new to SsAM, please click here to see the Welcome page on this website. The Episcopal Church of Saints Andrew and Matthew is a diverse congregation active in the affairs of downtown Wilmington, Delaware, seeking God’s will on earth as it is in heaven.

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